I think some of my friends are only friends with me because of my money? Should I just ditch them?

What to do if you feel broken hearted by him?

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Raines

It was my new job and he was my new supervisor. He thought highly of me in the beginning and that was why he offered me the position. I thought we have a good relationship. But now, I wasn't able to do well at the job because my production was not up to their standard and I had been giving verbal warnings by him... and I may not have my job anymore pretty soon ... All these just happened so quick and fast and I just didn't know it would be like this .... I feel so broken-hearted and sad and really didn't mean for this to happen because I think he would be a good person for me ... But now it is just such a mess ...I don't know what to do... I feel so broken hearted...
I mean if I didn't make the first mistake of not focusing on my job completely, then I would still be able to do well at my job and have a good relationship with him. It was my fault because I wasn't that focused seriously on my job and I also was not aware of their expectations of me in the beginning.

When he (the supervisor) gave me a written warning, he said that it has to do with my future there with the company. I feel really bad because I want him to think highly of me like before because I like to be successful in that job and I also like him.. But, now it just seems like a mess and it sucks ... What should I do?

Answer
natalie's method:
eat lots of ice cream at first, while watching movies... it gets your mind of the guy (dont do this for too long cause you will gain weight & then blame me, lol) remember to spend 24/7 with your friends, get your mind of anything thats troubling you, have a chick night, then go out to i.e. movies. in your spare time you can go jogging, its really relaxing especially if its in a quiet enviorment like a beach or a park, bring your ipod with your favorite songs on it & blast it. it keeps you pumped while running & its a great stress reliever.so, you are heart broken & you need to get your life back on track; just find something taht intrests you & stick to it. it could be an art class, a yoga, a woman's suppost group, ect.

here are some othe rgreat stress relievers to get your mind of all your troubles & you back on the top if your thoughts:
1) Breathing Exercises
Deep breathing is an easy stress reliever that has numerous benefits for the body, including oxygenating the blood, which ‘wakes up’ the brain, relaxing muscles and quieting the mind. Breathing exercises are especially helpful because you can do them anywhere, and they work quickly so you can de-stress in a flash.

2) Meditation
Meditation builds on deep breathing, and takes it a step further. When you meditate, your brain enters an area of functioning that’s similar to sleep, but carries some added benefits you can’t achieve as well in any other state, including the release of certain hormones that promote health. Also, the mental focus on nothingness keeps your mind from working overtime and increasing your stress level.

3) Exercise
Many people exercise to control weight and get in better physical condition to become more healthy or physically attractive, but exercise and stress management are also closely linked. Exercise provides a distraction from stressful situations, as well as an outlet for frustrations, and gives you a lift via endorphins as well.

4) Yoga
Yoga is one of the oldest self-improvement practices around, dating back over 5 thousand years! It combines the practices of several other stress management techniques such as breathing, meditation, imagery and movement, giving you a lot of benefit for the amount of time and energy required.

5) Music
Music therapy has shown numerous health benefits for people with conditions ranging from mild (like stress) to severe (like cancer). When dealing with stress, the right music can actually lower your blood pressure, relax your body and calm your mind.

just try to work hard, and make sure everythign else goes right, also it would be a good idea to have a second job that you could work at in case something goes wrong in this one, just have an emergency back up plan, everyone should have one.
i really tryed to help, so i hope i suceeded.
GOOD LUCK & HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!!!

What songs should i put on my ipod?

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Brittany

i need at least 100 songs to put on my ipod, i listen to almost everything, but no gospel music. THANKS!!!

Answer
I only listen to rap, hip-hop, and R&B so here you go:


112- Peaches and cream
2pistols- She got it
2Pac- Until the end of time
Aaliyah-4 page letter
Akon- locked up
Amanda Perez- Angel
Ashanti- Baby
Ashanti- Unfoolish
Avant- makin' good love
Avant- separated
Busta Rhymes- What it is
Big Pun- Still Not A Player
Big Pun- It's So Hard
Blackstreet- No Diggity
Bobby Valentino- Hands on Me
Busta Rhymes- Conglomerate
Busta Rhymes- Touch
Cam'Ron- Hey Ma
Case- Touch me, Tease me
Cherish- Do It To it
Chingy- one Call Away
Christina Milian- Dip It Low
Ciara- Like A Surgeon
City High- What Would You Do
City High- Caramel
Clipse- Grindin'
D4L- Laffy Taffy
David Banner- Play
Destiny's Child- No, No, No
Webstar- Dancin' on Me
DMX- Party Up
Dorrough Music- Ice Cream Paint Job
Dorrough Music- Walk that Walk
Drake- Best I Ever Had
Eve- Satisfaction
Eve- Love is Blind
Fabolous- Throw It in The Bag
Fabolous- Breathe
Faith Evans- Love Like This Before
Fat Joe & Ashanti- What's Luv
Ginuwine- Pony
Ginuwine- Same Ol' G
Gucci Mane- Freaky Gurl
J- Kwon- Tipsy
Ja Rule- Put It On Me
Jadakiss- Whos Real
Jay- Z- Jigga What, Jigga Who
Jay-Z- Big Pimpin'
Jay-Z- H To The Izzo
Jay- Z & Beyonce- '03 Bonnie & Clyde
Jeremih- I'm A Star
Jeremih- Birthday Sex
Juvenile- Slow Motion
K- Ci & Jojo- All My Life
K.P. & Envyi- Shawty Swing My Way
Jamie- Foxx- Slow Jamz
Keri Hilson- Knock You Down
Keyshia Cole & Monica- Trust
Kid Kudi- Day 'n' Night
Lil Wayne & young money- every girl
LL Cool J- Doin' It
LL Cool J- Headsprung
Mariah Carey & Gucci Mane- Obsessed
Mario- Break up
Mike Jones- Next To You
MIMS-Move
Missy Elliott- Hot Boyz
Monica- Everytime The Beat Drops
Nelly- Ride wit me
Sole- Never Had
New Boyz- You're A Jerk
P. Diddy Ft. Usher- I Need A Girl pt. 1
Pharrell- Frontin'
Twista- Overnight Celebrity
Twista-Wetter
R. Kelly & Keri Hilson- No. 1 Sex
Ron Browz- Simple
The Dream- Mr. Yeah
Young Gunz- Can't Stop, Won't stop
Young LA- Futuristic Love
Trina- Single again
Total- What About Us
Total- Sitting home
TLC- No Scrubs
The Dream and Mariah Carey- My Love
Ron Browz- pop Champagne
The Dream- Falsetto
The Dream- Shawty is a ten
The Dream- Rockin' That thang
Ciara- Love sex magic
Tony Yayo- So seductive
Eve- Tambourine
T.I.- Bring em out
T.I.- Live your life
T.I.- Swagger like us
T- pain- buy u a drank
T- pain- can't believe it
T- pain-I'm Sprung
Shawty lo- Dey Know
Rick Ross- The Boss
Pleasure p- Boyfriend #2
Pitbull- Krazy
Mya- My love is like....Wo
Mya- Ridin'
Pras ft. ODB And Mya- Ghetto Supastar
Mya- case of the ex
Missy Elliott- work it
Missy Elliott-Get ur freak on
Missy Elliott- Ching a ling
Missy Elliott- Lose Control
Mariah Carey- we belong together
usher- Love in this club
Lloyd- you
Lloyd- Year of the lover
LL Cool J & The Dream- Baby
LL Cool- Loungin'
Lil' Wayne-Got Money
Fabolous ft. lil mo- superwoman

If you need more let me know

Random facts TIME! (:?

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Katie

I'm going to tell you 5 random facts about myself & then you tell me 5 about yourself.
1. I haven't had soda in 3 years
2. My favorite flavor is peppermint
3. My iPod touch case is blue
4. I straighten my hair almost everyday
5. I'm watching iCarly right now.

Answer
1. i'm watching shake it up and i don't know why the f*ck i am.
2. i absolutely love breyer's black raspberry chocolate chip ice cream.
3. i have 2 parrots and 3 dogs
4. i'm addicted to fb even though i despise it. lol
5. i'm dying to get some highlights in my hair again