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Abby
my ex boyfriend & I broke up about 3 months ago & I miss him like crazy. I sleep with his hoodie & cry myself to sleep every night.. how do I make the pain go away?? I love him so much & will do anything for him.
Answer
First, give everything you own about him, RIGHT BACK. Including his jacket and anything that reminds you of him. If you want to move on, you can't have any memories of him.
Second, BE HAPPY! Stop thinking about him, it'll probably just bring you down. Do something you love to do. If it's photography, take some pictures. Music? Dance or sing...OR BOTH! Only happy and uplifting music.. If you like to draw, draw things that make you happy or things you love to draw, as long as it has nothing to do with your ex.
Third, chances are you're young. Go hang out with some friends. Have a great time. Talk on the phone all night with them. LAUGH A LITTLE... OR A LOT! Have fun!
Fourth, eat ANYTHING you want. If you're on a diet, who cares? If you want some chocolate, vanilla, strawberry, cookie dough, Oreo, and M&M ice cream.... GO GET SOME! Put all the chocolate syrup you want, put as much whipped cream as you need, put all the candy and sprinkles you crave! Eat a whole bag of your favorite chips. Buy some pizza with your favorite toppings. Eat whatever you want.
Fifth, SHOPPING! No matter what type of girl you are, you must love shopping. Whether you're goth and you love shipping for black stuff, or you're girly and you NEED more heels. It's always fun shopping. And hell, do it with some friends! If you don't have money for shopping, just go to the beach or have a sleepover.
Sixth, get pretty. REALLY pretty. Then just go out and do whatever you want. But make sure you stand out and look so gorgeous, people must stop and stare. Don't feel like going out? Then just takes tons of pictures of yourself (looking happy and gorgeous) then post them for all your friends to see how happy you are now. Whether it's Facebook, Instagram, Tumblr, or Twitter... Everyone should see.
Seventh, be confident about yourself. If you don't feel better, how do you expect to get better?
It will take some time, but if you really want the pain to go, you would do it.
And don't worry, I'm not some old adult trying to give advice. I'm a teen in high school,who of course went through break ups. But after I did all of these, I found someone who I've been with for over a year :) I hope it works for you and that you find someone to make you even happier than the last one.
Good luck :)
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